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Enough About You… Shameless Self-Promotion


It took a while for me to figure out that it’s okay to talk about and sell “me“. Look at anyone who has ever been successful. They’ve all exhibited some sort of shameless self-promotion at one point or another and understand the value of marketing themselves and gaining visibility by talking about who they are and what they do.

You have to be willing to plug your personal brand whenever and wherever possible. Take every opportunity. No one else is going to toot your horn. It’s you that has to create the spark that will ignite your fire. Let me give you an example…

The Light Up Pen

I worked in retail sales for a couple of years and I had a natural gift at selling things. I remember working at the cash register one day and my boss asked me to try and sell a bunch of light up ink pens that had been collecting dust on a nearby shelf. They were $8 each and I couldn’t imagine that anyone would really want to buy them, but I liked the idea of a challenge.

The first thing I did was move all of the pens next to the cash register. I made them noticeable, but more than that – I made them accessible.

Each time someone approached the counter I would make a pitch about the pen. I’d talk it up and show the customers just how great it was. I’d even hand them the pen to sign their receipts with. Some would actually make another swipe of the ol’ credit card just to have one.

Had the pens stayed on the shelf, these customers would have come and gone and never noticed them. I wasn’t afraid to make the sales pitch to every single customer. It didn’t matter if I thought they would actually buy it or not. I took advantage of every opportunity and one out of every three customers walked away with one. By the end of the day, I had sold 38 of them.

It’s all about exposure.

Don’t Sell Yourself Short

When you’re selling a product, you talk about it. You position it so that it’s highly visible. It’s no different when the product you’re selling is you.

Now, there’s an unfortunate amount of narcissism required in order to successfully promote yourself, but keep it in check. Don’t over do it. No one likes a person who talks endlessly about themselves. They hate it even worse when you don’t talk about them or to them. Make sure you interact, communicate, and engage your customer or audience. If you give them what they need, they’ll give you what you need.

I bookmarked this article from remarkablogger.com a few months back and have read it several times for inspiration. It’s great piece on self-promoting without being that guy. Take a look – it’s worth the read.

Let’s Talk About It

What are you doing to successfully self-promote?

How are you engaging your customers/audience?

What are some examples of the right or wrong way to do it?


Photo source: remarkablogger.com





Virtual Vacation – No Excuses


I haven’t posted anything since last Friday. This absolutely kills me because I made a personal goal to post something new at least once a day. I took off of work and enjoyed a four day weekend, but I somehow have a mountain of excuses why I haven’t put anything new up. What did I do with all of that time?

Am I just making excuses?

Here are a few of them:

  • My son’s 3rd birthday was Friday.
  • We had a re-bachelor party for a friend on Saturday night.
  • I took my son to the ER with a busted noggin on Sunday.
  • I helped some friends get their server back up on Monday.
  • Monday was also my birthday.
  • I played catch up at work and was T-I-R-E-D when I got home on Tuesday.

How long does it take to put up a new post? About 30-45 minutes, depending on a lot of factors. Did I really not have 45 minutes at any point during all of this to stop and put a post up?

You guys know how I love to advocate Chris Brogan of chrisbrogan.com. I do this because I believe in his message and if I can help him extend it in any way, I’m going to. Chris recently put up a video about making excuses. I thought I’d share it with you guys, but I also encourage you to subscribe to his blog. The guy is an energizer and he will get you thinking.

Here’s the video:


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My goal is to be a successful writer but I won’t succeed if I continue to let excuses get between me and my goals. I’ll pose the same question to you that Chris posed to his audience…

How are you dealing with excuses in your own pursuit of success?





Why I DON’T Want to Be Like Chris Brogan


Don’t misunderstand me. I’m a big fan of Chris Brogan (blogger and NY Times Best Selling author) and the work he does. His ability to share what he knows has made me a better blogger and I’m nothing but grateful.

Lately, Chris has been pulling back the curtain to reveal what his life is like behind the scenes now that he has become the go-to guy of the interwebs. In one of his recent posts, Overnight Success, he talks about the sacrifices he has had to make in order to meet the demand of his success. His life is a constant stream of speaking engagements, non-stop travel, and hotel rooms – all part of the sacrifice that comes with spreading a message he is passionate about.

These are his glory days and he has every right to bask in the limelight after years of hard work, but it was a video interview on BrandCampU.com, So You Want to Be Like Chris Brogan, that really got me wondering if I wanted to be like the guy whose blog I adore.


Have a look:


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Do I want to be successful? Well of course I do, but I think my definition of success may be very different.

In his book, Make Today Count, which I reviewed here, John C. Maxwell talks about priorities. It’s one of the 12 Principles that helps us sculpt our daily activities in order to be more successful. John had a very different definition of success until he actually became successful. Was he passionate about his message? Absolutely, but he recognized quickly that he was neglecting the needs of his family in order to satisfy his audience. He rewrote his definition of success at that moment: Success is having the people closest to me love and respect me the most. He recognized that his family was his first priority.

In an interview on personalbrandingblog.com back in March 2009, John was asked the question, “What is your definition of success?” He answered, “I know that if I make you, your readers, or anyone else think highly of me, but I betray or neglect my wife Margaret or people who know me well, I have failed.” I think highly of John just for making that statement.

Out of the last 40 days I saw my family 2 days out of 40 and, you know, I’ll see them twice more out of the next 20.

- Chris Brogan, Interview on BrandCampU.com

I have nothing but the utmost respect for Chris Brogan and I mean no offense by writing any of this. He is an incredible person with a strong work ethic and moral compass. He works with no pretenses in full disclosure and brings something to the internet that has been lacking: trust. He is dedicated and committed to his passion and I applaud him for that, but I also don’t want to be like him.

If I measure my success by John Maxwell’s definition then I’ve already achieved it and I plan to keep it that way. I’ll constantly strive to improve myself and do bigger and better things, but never at the risk of neglecting my family. You could argue that it’s only temporary and that I’d be better equipped to take care of my family after the dust settles, but I disagree. I support Chris’s passion and effort, but I also recognize that I could not do what he does and the sacrifices that he is making aren’t the kind that I’m willing to make.

What do you think? Is achieving success worth the sacrifice of neglecting your family?



Photo Source: stevegarfield





Attn Nashville Bloggers (Video)

If you’re not in Nashville then you may just want to skip this one. (Sorry!) Attention all Nashville-based bloggers! I have an idea and I need your help. Watch the following vid to get the scoop.

So there it is. Are you interested? I have no idea if anyone else is already doing this, but if they are then I’m about to step on some toes. I have a very specific vision for this site and I’m looking for anyone who has the skill and interest to step up and help make this happen.

Please be sure to get in touch if you can code PHP, if you specialize in web and/or graphic design, logo design, are familiar with WordPress MU, or have any other relevant skills to bring to the table. This is going to be OUR community so everyone has a say in it’s development.

Anyone else as excited as I am?





Building a Community (Video)

Well today I’ve decided to try something different. A friend and I were talking the other day about things I can do on my site to bring more people over and engage them and he suggested short video posts. Here we go!

So today we’re talking about community. Help me define the community experience so I can bring that to you here on this site. I don’t want to force it. It needs to happen naturally, but I’d love to know what it means to you so I can lay the foundation for it.

As I said in the video, I’m very excited about this community experience. What do you think? Do you have any ideas to share?





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