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Enough About You… Shameless Self-Promotion


It took a while for me to figure out that it’s okay to talk about and sell “me“. Look at anyone who has ever been successful. They’ve all exhibited some sort of shameless self-promotion at one point or another and understand the value of marketing themselves and gaining visibility by talking about who they are and what they do.

You have to be willing to plug your personal brand whenever and wherever possible. Take every opportunity. No one else is going to toot your horn. It’s you that has to create the spark that will ignite your fire. Let me give you an example…

The Light Up Pen

I worked in retail sales for a couple of years and I had a natural gift at selling things. I remember working at the cash register one day and my boss asked me to try and sell a bunch of light up ink pens that had been collecting dust on a nearby shelf. They were $8 each and I couldn’t imagine that anyone would really want to buy them, but I liked the idea of a challenge.

The first thing I did was move all of the pens next to the cash register. I made them noticeable, but more than that – I made them accessible.

Each time someone approached the counter I would make a pitch about the pen. I’d talk it up and show the customers just how great it was. I’d even hand them the pen to sign their receipts with. Some would actually make another swipe of the ol’ credit card just to have one.

Had the pens stayed on the shelf, these customers would have come and gone and never noticed them. I wasn’t afraid to make the sales pitch to every single customer. It didn’t matter if I thought they would actually buy it or not. I took advantage of every opportunity and one out of every three customers walked away with one. By the end of the day, I had sold 38 of them.

It’s all about exposure.

Don’t Sell Yourself Short

When you’re selling a product, you talk about it. You position it so that it’s highly visible. It’s no different when the product you’re selling is you.

Now, there’s an unfortunate amount of narcissism required in order to successfully promote yourself, but keep it in check. Don’t over do it. No one likes a person who talks endlessly about themselves. They hate it even worse when you don’t talk about them or to them. Make sure you interact, communicate, and engage your customer or audience. If you give them what they need, they’ll give you what you need.

I bookmarked this article from remarkablogger.com a few months back and have read it several times for inspiration. It’s great piece on self-promoting without being that guy. Take a look – it’s worth the read.

Let’s Talk About It

What are you doing to successfully self-promote?

How are you engaging your customers/audience?

What are some examples of the right or wrong way to do it?


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Virtual Vacation – No Excuses


I haven’t posted anything since last Friday. This absolutely kills me because I made a personal goal to post something new at least once a day. I took off of work and enjoyed a four day weekend, but I somehow have a mountain of excuses why I haven’t put anything new up. What did I do with all of that time?

Am I just making excuses?

Here are a few of them:

  • My son’s 3rd birthday was Friday.
  • We had a re-bachelor party for a friend on Saturday night.
  • I took my son to the ER with a busted noggin on Sunday.
  • I helped some friends get their server back up on Monday.
  • Monday was also my birthday.
  • I played catch up at work and was T-I-R-E-D when I got home on Tuesday.

How long does it take to put up a new post? About 30-45 minutes, depending on a lot of factors. Did I really not have 45 minutes at any point during all of this to stop and put a post up?

You guys know how I love to advocate Chris Brogan of chrisbrogan.com. I do this because I believe in his message and if I can help him extend it in any way, I’m going to. Chris recently put up a video about making excuses. I thought I’d share it with you guys, but I also encourage you to subscribe to his blog. The guy is an energizer and he will get you thinking.

Here’s the video:


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My goal is to be a successful writer but I won’t succeed if I continue to let excuses get between me and my goals. I’ll pose the same question to you that Chris posed to his audience…

How are you dealing with excuses in your own pursuit of success?





Why I DON’T Want to Be Like Chris Brogan


Don’t misunderstand me. I’m a big fan of Chris Brogan (blogger and NY Times Best Selling author) and the work he does. His ability to share what he knows has made me a better blogger and I’m nothing but grateful.

Lately, Chris has been pulling back the curtain to reveal what his life is like behind the scenes now that he has become the go-to guy of the interwebs. In one of his recent posts, Overnight Success, he talks about the sacrifices he has had to make in order to meet the demand of his success. His life is a constant stream of speaking engagements, non-stop travel, and hotel rooms – all part of the sacrifice that comes with spreading a message he is passionate about.

These are his glory days and he has every right to bask in the limelight after years of hard work, but it was a video interview on BrandCampU.com, So You Want to Be Like Chris Brogan, that really got me wondering if I wanted to be like the guy whose blog I adore.


Have a look:


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Do I want to be successful? Well of course I do, but I think my definition of success may be very different.

In his book, Make Today Count, which I reviewed here, John C. Maxwell talks about priorities. It’s one of the 12 Principles that helps us sculpt our daily activities in order to be more successful. John had a very different definition of success until he actually became successful. Was he passionate about his message? Absolutely, but he recognized quickly that he was neglecting the needs of his family in order to satisfy his audience. He rewrote his definition of success at that moment: Success is having the people closest to me love and respect me the most. He recognized that his family was his first priority.

In an interview on personalbrandingblog.com back in March 2009, John was asked the question, “What is your definition of success?” He answered, “I know that if I make you, your readers, or anyone else think highly of me, but I betray or neglect my wife Margaret or people who know me well, I have failed.” I think highly of John just for making that statement.

Out of the last 40 days I saw my family 2 days out of 40 and, you know, I’ll see them twice more out of the next 20.

- Chris Brogan, Interview on BrandCampU.com

I have nothing but the utmost respect for Chris Brogan and I mean no offense by writing any of this. He is an incredible person with a strong work ethic and moral compass. He works with no pretenses in full disclosure and brings something to the internet that has been lacking: trust. He is dedicated and committed to his passion and I applaud him for that, but I also don’t want to be like him.

If I measure my success by John Maxwell’s definition then I’ve already achieved it and I plan to keep it that way. I’ll constantly strive to improve myself and do bigger and better things, but never at the risk of neglecting my family. You could argue that it’s only temporary and that I’d be better equipped to take care of my family after the dust settles, but I disagree. I support Chris’s passion and effort, but I also recognize that I could not do what he does and the sacrifices that he is making aren’t the kind that I’m willing to make.

What do you think? Is achieving success worth the sacrifice of neglecting your family?



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Wait, Work Can Be Fun?


Before you start reading, check out this video from TheFunTheory.com:


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My wife stumbled across this on Facebook today and I thought it was pretty amazing. People were deciding to put more effort into getting to the next level because it was fun to do. What a concept, huh?

The first thing to pop into my head after I watched this was a co-worker from a previous employer. His name was Duncan and he was a telephony guru. I was assigned to be his backup so he began teaching me the ropes of the telecom role. As I worked along side of him it became evident that he really enjoyed his job. There wasn’t anything incredibly exciting about it, but he was giving it his own spin – making it fun. He’d whistle, tell jokes and stories, and it just made the time fly by.

He actually stopped right in the middle of testing a line and said: “If you aren’t having fun, enjoying what it is you do, then it’s not worth doing.

That has stuck in my head and it become a mantra of mine ever since.

Imagine what you could accomplish if you looked for simple ways to make the job fun. Without a doubt you will find yourself going the extra mile and putting a little more effort into your work because you’re enjoying it. We’re all trying to get to the next level. So why not have a little fun along the way?

What are some ways you can make your job fun or more enjoyable?
Remember, keep it simple. It’s the little things that count.

Duncan had it figured out. Come to think of it, I need to get in touch with him and catch up. I think I owe him a cold one.





Book Recommendation: Make Today Count by John C. Maxwell

I’m going to start making weekly recommendations of books that I really enjoyed reading and I think will be of some great use to all of you. It occurred to me that I was “hogging” a lot of great reads by not talking about them so I’m going to change that and post some brief reviews. If you’re an avid reader like I am then I hope you’ll recommend some of your favorites as well. I’m always looking for the next good read. Let’s get started with the first review…

This Week’s Book Recommendation

Make Today Count: The Secret of Your Success Is Determined by Your Daily Agenda by John C. Maxwell

This little book packs a big punch and I now have a fresh perspective on how to live each day. This is a condensed version of John’s book, Today Matters, which I appreciate because I read through it quickly and easily and didn’t feel like I was missing anything critical.

Are you ready to make each day a masterpiece?

The idea is simple: Good Decisions + Daily Discipline = A Masterpiece of Potential. John then talks about the 12 Daily Principles (or the “Daily Dozen”) that are key ingredients in making this recipe work. If you’re looking for motivation and a new angle on how to make each day meaningful then I highly recommend this book.

Have you read this book? Be sure to share your thoughts!





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